johnanthonylifestyle.com Reviews 

This program is straight up weird and dishonest. It teaches you to lie to women, including pretending to be a DJ, inflating your status, and promising things you never plan to deliver. One of the most uncomfortable parts was being told to dangle a monthly allowance to get women interested, while openly admitting it’s just a lie to get in the door. That alone says everything.

Nothing about this felt like real confidence, attraction, or healthy dating. It’s manipulation dressed up as self improvement. The whole thing is about deception, ego, and getting women back to your place by any means, not genuine connection or consent.

Add the constant drama,

Courses are 10+ year old, very low quality. The coach was recently banned from YouTube for making more videos talking bad about people.

Threatened to sue me for disagreeing with him

I was completely and utterly ripped off by him and have talked to multiple other people who have had the same experience.

I had an amazing experience with John Anthony Lifestyle’s Platinum Dating Service. In addition to the well-structured online course, the amount of personal time you get with John and his coaches is truly priceless. The tailored, one-on-one feedback helps identify and fix bottlenecks in your dating game quickly and effectively. Their expertise allows them to pinpoint issues and provide the right solutions almost instantly. You’ll be learning directly from masters of the craft, which fast-tracks your growth and sets you up for dating success!

I don’t usually write reviews, but John’s coaching programs have been such a game-changer for my dating life that I had to share my experience. If you’re on the fence about working with his team, here’s why I think you should take the leap.

John isn’t your typical “natural” who’s always had it easy with women. He’s openly shared that he was once shy, introverted, and completely clueless about dating—just like many of us starting out. His own struggles shaped his coaching, making it relatable and grounded. He gets what it’s like to feel lost or stuck, which is exactly why his system works, even for beginners.

What stands out the most is that John’s systems approach to dating isn’t about using gimmicks or tricks. It’s about building genuine confidence, honing your emotional intelligence, and connecting with women authentically. His coaching is all about becoming the best version of yourself, rather than pretending to be someone you’re not.

The results? It’s honestly like night and day. And this was a whiiiiile back (12+ months ago). Trustpilot only lets me date the experience up to 12 month back, only. I went from feeling nervous about starting conversations with women to forming meaningful, genuine connections. I even felt more comfortable navigating relationships in a natural, fulfilling way. I also got to see John in action during nights out in Miami—this guy is the real deal. He was effortlessly connecting with women at every venue we hit. His coaches, Josh and Conor, were equally impressive, pulling off the same results.

The bootcamp was incredible. I did half of the regular one (before the immersion program) in a major U.S. city with another coach on his team. Since then, I’ve been able to go out consistently and land dates with amazing women. John’s online dating strategies are practical and effective—his sequences and principles make it almost too easy to meet new women and set up dates.

A couple of things to keep in mind: you have to put in some effort. Aim for at least 10 new phone numbers a week and follow up to confirm dates. Communication is key. You have to be connecting with enough women (online/in-person). This ensures you have enough women interested to land at least one date a week. Also, if you’re looking to improve your online dating, his team picks your best photos that would get the most matches.

John’s system works for all kinds of guys. During the Miami Immersion, I saw men who weren’t in perfect shape nor super tall still succeed. His coaching focuses on confidence and authenticity—teaching you how to communicate your true self in a way that resonates with women and sparks real chemistry.
The system is also designed to guide you, step-by-step, through every interaction—from saying “hi” to suggesting a date and knowing exactly what to do on that first date to make it a fun, memorable experience. Whether you’re out at night or during the day, you’ll learn exactly what to say and how to follow up effectively. John makes it simple—his approach takes all the guesswork out of the equation, so you know how to transition from conversation to setting up that first date, what to say to confirm it, and how to keep the vibe flowing smoothly once you’re there. Everything is laid out clearly, and it’s designed for real-life success—so you can easily follow the steps to succeed.

Some reviews mention issues with customer service or the Platinum Dating System. I can’t speak to those experiences, but personally I’ve had no issues with customer service and have used both the PDS and online dating programs without feeling any pressure. Specifically, if mastering cold approaches is your goal, I’d recommend starting with the 8-week program, followed by a bootcamp in a major city. The instruction is top-notch, delivered by experienced coaches who genuinely want to see you succeed. The 8-week program provides a solid foundation to build on. However, in my experience, getting live feedback is incredibly valuable—it helps you identify areas you may not even realize need improvement and allows you to see experienced coaches demonstrate effective techniques in real time.

One last thing: you need to have some self-awareness about where you’re stuck in the dating process. Actively ask questions, get feedback, and be open to improvement. You can’t expect results without putting in some effort. This is a skill you’re learning, so you need to put in the reps, get feedback, and make improvements.

And just to clarify—I didn’t get paid to write this review. This is my genuine opinion.

If you’re struggling with dating and wondering if there’s hope, trust me—John & his team of expert coaches can help. His system works, and he’s a coach who truly cares.

Follow his guidance, put in the work, and you’ll see results :)

The best dating program on the market, and will be for the foreseeable future. I hit my dating goals of 5 high quality dates per week, with options left over. No matter what your goals are the experts on the program will get you there fast

Good training with practical advice that simplifies the whole approach.

The only coach who got me results after having had no success for a decade. I know that he can come off as aggressive in his videos on Youtube but what sets him apart from other coaches is he gets results for his clients.

This is why I call him the dating coach of last resort. When all the other fake gurus can't help you fix your dating life, he does.

Most dating coaches either give vague advice (be confident, be alpha --- see the late David Wygant for this type of advice) or are stuck in the minutiae of pick up artistry (I walked into two set, I DHVD, and then I negged the target -- see Adam Lyons for this advice).

In sum, John's 8-week program rocked. No fluff. No BS. No technical jargon. Just a mostly linear process to move things forward as well as an explanation of objections handling (a very important part of game that is not address by virtually anybody in the community).

While his coaching is not cheap, it is well worth it if you are looking for a one time fix to your dating problems (from getting more leads to getting more closes as well as retaining the girls that you want to have in your life).

I broke a 10-year dry spell after getting Occam's Razor and Leads Machine, and carry myself like a totally different person. Getting that aspect of my life together pulled me out of a black pill spiral and helped me overcome serious confidence issues. Now I'm crushing business with my dream girl thanks to John's training.

I did the 8 week course in Feb 2022 after a bad break-up left my game and confidence in tatters; unable to get many dates, blowing dates out by saying the wrong thing after looking forward all week, and getting 0 lays.
After the 8 week course I was on 5 lays after a 6 month dry spell, by the end of the year I had 20 more, so 25 in total in a year.

Johns system breaks down dating into a 'sales funnel' of sorts, removing the over complication and clownery that other coaches might teach. First by increasing 'leads' (numbers), you increase your dates which then leads to more lays.
This strategy allows you to then move interactions along seamlessly without having to over compensate and feel or appear unnatural when speaking attractive women whilst out on dates or during night.

This is the most dialed down system there is, and because it is so uncomplicated, I thought I was being scammed at first as I thought, ''Is this all it is? It can't be this simple'', but by the end of week 2 I was already getting dates on from online apps which had never happened to me before.

I personally met John and his wife when he visited London later that year, which was great fun. We hit the clubs and he showed me how to pull in real-time, of which some one liners had me making out with girls on the dance floor within 15 seconds.

If you have any doubts about taking his mentorship, you can take it from me, it's the real deal and if the steps are taken is practically guaranteed to bring results.

Note: These events occurred in 2022, but I can't set the date earlier than Aug last year when writing the review.

Straight up the most efficient way to resolve your dating problems. John’s system is fully optimized, literally plug and play. No cheesy lines, no gimmicks, no bs. If you have been in the market for guidance in this subject before, you will notice the difference. He cares and the results speak for themselves.

Before taking up with John as a mentor of mine, I had zero knowledge of the dating game and tried other coaches, with not much success. After taking his 8 week program, everything just seems natural at this point, I now have an abundance of high quality women in my life, where before it only seemed like a pipe dream. LITERALLY SAVED MY DATING LIFE! John and his team give you all the tools you need to succeed in the game no matter what your dating goals are. A really stand up guy, and true expert and master in his field. Thanks again John!

I took the platinum course and it changed my life. This is verifiably, hands down the best dating coach in the world. He helped me with my insecurities and helped me get dates. I am looking for my wife and now I have options. I am forever grateful.

I lost my virginity thanks to John's dating system. What I love about his system is that he has broken it down to a detailed step-by-step game plan that anybody can follow. He teaches you how to create a top tier dating profile that gets you tons of matches, exactly what to text the girls in order to get phone numbers and dates, exactly how to run the dates in order to get the hookup. He also teaches you how to do cold approaches correctly, both during night- and day time. There is no fluff or any other unecessary advice that he gives you, only straight forward and practical advice. Once you've been trained by him, you will never struggle with women ever again. John is legit, highly recommend him!

In 8 weeks my game grew beyond expectation, Jon and the the team kept in communication the entire time and helped me resolve any issues I was having. Would recommend for people at any experience level

John is a good guy, he wants guys to succeed in their romantic life. So much of this genre is toxic gimmicky nonsense pick up artist crap. He teaches to be yourself, have confidence, make simple genuine approaches, and put the reps in. Of course his system goes more in depth on how to follow up etc. but the point is other "dating coaches" are mostly try hard scammers who have no receipts whereas John does.

What’s up guys? My name is James and I’m 54 year-old man from New York. i’ve been on the bench so to speak for a few years and John’s course really lit a fire under me and got me to take action. i’ve been approaching, getting into different social situations, and even got laid a couple of times during the eight week period. The other two coaches, Josh and Connor are really cool guys who bring their own unique spin to the way they practice game. Whatever level of game, you’re at these guys can help you get way further than you can on your own. Definitely worth the investment!“

John's the only person in the dating advice world who seems to genuinely care about getting his students' success - rather than building repeat customers, to string along with course after course. His system is straightforward, easy to follow and implement, and presented in a very digestible way. It's the first thing that actually got me consistent results, and made me fully understand that attraction is a skill you can develop, not something you have to be born with or dependent on external factors. Highly recommended!

Johns system is #1, did things i didnt think i could before