connectingsingles Reviews 

it's not 1 star. it is 0. it is a complete scam. I signed in without a profile picture with a blank profile and started getting 3 msgs per day. In 3 days I had 10 msgs. It is obvious that they are not genuine and that there is a script running using fake profiles to send me the msgs to get my curiosity and pay their membership to read these msgs. 10 msgs from 10 different ladies to a blank profile is bullshit.

Less than 0 if possible; I would rate this as the site is run by Muslims in Bangladesh. The responses are AI-produced, and over 90% if not more of the profiles are FAKE.

I was bombarded with ads for weeks and eventually clicked one that led me to connectingsingles.com. After signing up, I was immediately redirected to a different domain (hub.bluemouse.date), which looked similar but wasn’t the official site.

From the start, I saw 15 “messages” from women waiting for me — but they were locked behind a paywall. I hadn’t contacted anyone yet, so I suspected they were fake. Sure enough, once I paid (using a voucher instead of my credit card for safety), all those messages turned out to be auto‑generated. After that, the messages stopped completely and no one responded.

This is a bait‑and‑switch scheme: they lure you in with fake activity, block it behind a subscription, then vanish once you pay. The constant ads, the redirect to a mirrored site, and the fake engagement all confirm this is not a genuine dating community.

⚠️ Advice: Do not give them your credit card details. If you’re curious, use a voucher — but expect nothing real. Save your money and avoid the trap.

Totally agree with Hector - this site is FULL of fakes and scammers - most try to get your mobile number etc by saying 'lets chat offsite' then ask for money.

Even if you totally delete EVERYTHING in a profile including pictures (as I did since the site will not remove it), you STILL get hits showing clearly it's bots or AI generated junk.
AVOID THIS SITE and DO NOT give them your card details as they WILL NOT allow you to remove it, (the website removal doesn't work) and so will KEEP BILLING YOU!!
I had to cancel my card with the bank to STOP these crooks from charging me again.

AVOID + AVOID!!!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT USE THIS SITE!!!

Absolutely False and Frustrating Dating App
Their only interests are to keep you giving your money to them ...make it as difficult as they can to delete your profile and cancel your subscription...
Fake profiles and scammers ...
People that are not active anymore whose profiles are still there
Fake messages....Do not use this app as it will only frustrate you and that's not what a lonely sensitive souls needs .

There is still too little control when it comes to dating sites. All those people that have fallen victim to this fraudulent business should have known better. Always do research before signing up. Anyway, deleting your account on this site doesn’t go smoothly. They send you a confirmation email, but it only takes you back to your profile. Any ideas how to contact them?

fake profiles 7 people said they were gem dealers

Denne site er upålidelig. Man kan ikke komme af den og spørger man, får man intet svar. Pas på det er en pengemaskine.
den har fået en stjerne fordi jeg ellers ikke kan skrive en anmeldelse. Det skal inge have

took a free site with 100's of profiles and destroyed it. These for profit dating sites should really be illegal

This really went DOWNHILL. It turned into another paid subscription site.

One of the very worst, websites of this type of service I have ever encountered. The business is model, is snatch and hold. I have seen some very poor actors, playing with customers, but these are near the bottom of the pile. I feel sorry for the honest customers they have taken advantage of. Furthermore, I have been marketing dating websites since the 90s. Fact is....one worse than the next.

2nd day of paid membership and seeking refund

Connecting Singles interrupted the service for Continental Europe, Asia and Latin America.
In the English speaking countries still serviced, members have lost their international contacts and are charged with a hefty monthly price tag.
Gone forever are forums, blogs, music and film sections: all social interaction has been banned.
Disconnecting singles would be a more suitable name for it.

The majority of profiles are not people looking for relationship. They are crooks looking to extract some cash from the gullible. Someone mentioned J7Love.com
here on Trustpilot. I need to thank them for this recommendation. I followed it and it seems to have worked for me too. I think ConnectingSingles must be on watchdog. They don’t even try to prevent scam. They don’t ban scammers, they ignore all the complaints. To cut it short, they just sell you false hope.

23 carat amateurs hence why they only have 1 star ratings it's all about money with them now I used then when they was a boring unknown dating site they probably winning now they won't even help I put man seeking man in error I'm looking for women they just ignored me I asked to delete my profile they haven't do not use this site it's rubbish

All fake people sending

This site is quite incredible. First, and most oddly, they appear to be using a map of Ireland from before... 1923. Why do I say this? Well, there are places named Maryborough and Philipstown in users' locations that haven't existed since 1923, the year they were changed back to Port Laoise and Daingean respectively. Second, everybody in Ireland seems to be from one of about 15 places on the island - large swathes of people are from, apparently, "Mountjoy". In the real world, it's a small square and a street in Dublin. Third, and most incredibly, the owner appears to have purchased online profiles from 10 or 20 years ago and put them on this website in 2024. So, we have a person writing "I'm 23" but their age is recorded as... 37. I'd say many people would be shocked to find their old dating profiles here 20 years later! Even the quality of the photos are embarrassingly dated. Fourth, they cannot even do basic programming to ensure full photos appear. Heads are missing, eyes are missing.... Fifth, the people who work for this company seem to have one job, namely to run fake accounts and give the impression it has real customers. I have yet to have a single sustained conversation or a single phonecall with anybody. They disappear after the silly likes from their fake profiles. It's a scam website, which is a total waste of your time.

I have been on this site for 15 years, until I got married.. then checked in for the poetry corner.at which I had several poems, which the site said were copyrited by the owners of our poetry.. I have since been trying to no avail to log in as I have over 100 poems, many of which were personal. I had intended to write a book of them, to give to my children! I have written the site to no avail... I wrote as quietstormf which was my user name on there..The site used to be very friendly, however I cannot even log in too see if it has changed,,I had several friends on there, but lost my email site i had them on. so, if anyone can tell me how they log on these days, I would greatly appreciate it.I am now a widow and alot of my poems are very precious to me.. . hard to rate a site, I can no longer log into,I guess I will try a new profile? Ugh!

June 1, 2024 I was kicked out, my entry was rejected by ConnectingSingles after being a member there for 9 years. Apparently the location of Indonesia is not on the list of CS participating countries, and my browser was directed to a hookup website which looked like a sex chat site. I didn't pay the new membership fee requested by CS because I thought it was just their market strategy. It's very sad feel unappreciated and disappointing because at the end it was very bad, rude and savage. CS is no longer a friendly, non-racist international dating site, now it has turned into a da
scammer dating site which is actually they are the real gold digger for its members. And only valid for the westerns.I lost someone i just met there without the opportunity to exchange numbers, I miss my music collection which is nearly 700 tunes #Whitelily1

I tried to revisit the site after a little break and had password problems which I had to raise a complaint to try to resolve. It first told me that my address had been blacklisted but when I queried this they agreed that it was in error. I still couldn't log on so made up a new profile, it was only then I became aware that it is now a paid site.This seems to lack both administrative efficiency and customer courtesy.