Three Day Rule Matchmaking Reviews 29

My membership time with Three Day Rule was amazing. From the initial talk with membership, to the dating coach, photography session and of course my matchmaker, Jackie, I couldn't have asked for a more positive experience.

Great Service and caring Matchmakers! Very communicative and willing to work with you to meet your needs. My matchmaker, Deni, was awesome and went the extra mile.

Kristen has been wonderful throughout the process and I'd highly recommend to anyone interested in her services!

Working with Luba has been amazing. Great communication and feedback has been on point. 3DR has exceeding all expectations. I’d recommend 3DR to anyone

Three Day Rule is an outstandng company from the very beginning. I was so blessed to have Kelly as my matchmaker. From day one we hit it off and it was so easy to talk to her about everything. My concerns, my desires, and my boundaries. She has respected my choices and listened to all my needs. What a wonderful person she is and I cannot think of a better matchmaker. We are still in touch even though she matched me with a Love I NEVER thought existed. I know on a regular basis we catch up and I share the wonderful experiences she has ed me to. She will help me talk through any concerns I may have. Kelly is professional and she is so kind and knows this profession very well. She was made for this. Thank you Kelly and thank you Three Day Rule as I love working with you and your company.

When I first met Callie, I was months removed from the disappointing end of yet another relationship. I was anxious to move on but reluctant to enter a world of dating apps and awkward setups. Callie and Three Day Rule gave me the jump-start that I needed. From the very beginning, Callie took such great care of me. Her warmth & smile set my nerves at ease. She invested time in getting to know me & my dating history and helped me identify the characteristics of my ideal partner. She brought genuine energy and excitement to every conversation, worked to understand my feedback on each match, and ultimately led me to meet someone truly special. What I’ve found with my match is so much beyond any relationship I’ve ever had. I cannot wait to start our life together, and I could not be more thankful for Callie, her partnership in this process, and the friendship that we developed along the way.

Martina is amazing! I appreciate her attention to detail, and for being so intuitive.

I used a different matchmaking company before signing up with TDR and I can tell you they are not all the same. I had some concerns early on that were taken care of very quickly and professionally. If you are going to use a service I would highly recommend using TDR. I had Kelly as my matchmaker and she was absolutely amazing to deal with. She listened to exactly what I was looking for in a partner and set me up with some great women.

I'm only in their database as a free candidate and my experience with how they handle email interactions is laughable. They request info calls to see if you are a match for their client, I agree to the info call, then they never follow up. Not even a courtesy of saying matching had closed for the client they forwarded to me.

It's just feminist geared bs to to rush through whoever they can get to show up. I feel sorry for anyone who pays these people when they aren't even trying.l

I had such an amazing experience with Three Day Rule! From the start, my matchmaker was incredibly thoughtful, supportive, and genuinely invested in helping me meet great people. She really took the time to understand what I was looking for and introduced me to some truly amazing guys I probably wouldn’t have met otherwise.

The entire process felt personal, intentional, and actually fun. Every match felt well-considered, and I appreciated the feedback and guidance along the way. It made dating feel so much more positive and exciting.

I met some wonderful people through the process and had such a great overall experience. I would absolutely recommend Three Day Rule to any friend who wants a little extra support in dating and is excited to meet amazing people. It’s truly a great way to date with purpose!

I couldn't agree more with the 1-star reviews. This was a horrible experience, I feel completely ripped off. Paid thousands of dollars for matchmaking services including several consultation session that were never delivered. Despite my asking the matchmaker to let all potential matches know a key fact about me, she kept sending me people who didn't know the key fact, and when I mentioned it, all communication went silent. Don't waste your money.

In response to TDR's response: The company is well aware of my concerns and has not taken any corrective action in over one year.

I can't recommend this dating coach highly enough: Anastacia is a gem! She is deeply caring , thoughtful and genuinely invested in my growth and happiness. Her guidance is always practical and grounded. Whether she gives me a book to read, suggests journaling or simply validates how I feel, she is consistent. I always feel understood and she helps me refine clarity and gain confidence. Anastacia has fabulous communication skills both in person and via email. She is responsive and both empowering and reassuring. I purchased additional sessions because she is an amazing support and I feel like she is integral to my success! I am very grateful.

I am writing this review in order to adequately praise Tori Closson, my matchmaker. While it is true that I haven’t yet been on a date through Three Day Rule, my matchmaker Tori is hot on pursuit. I can not praise my tenancious, loving, and kind matchmaker enough. I am not an easy client in that I am looking for a very particular kind of man at this point in my life. Tori has gone above and beyond with her time, truly getting to know and understand me in order to truly learn me and the kind of very unique, loving and beautiful soul I am looking for in a man. After my twenty year marriage the bar is held very high and Tori understands this and I feel truly seen and valued by her…..and it is so obvious that she isn’t trying to just fill a quota like so many matchmakers are. She expects a lot from the men she is interviewing for me and she makes no bones about being my best advocate, clearly delineating to the men what her expectations are of them when reaching out to me. I have been working with Tori for about 6 weeks and I have absolutely no doubt whatsoever that if anyone can find me the kind of really high quality men I am looking for it is her.
I adore her, and joining three day rule to have Tori on your side is reason alone to do it.

I worked with Three Day Rule twice, and I’m so grateful I did. The first round didn’t lead me to my person, but it did help me learn a lot about myself, what I truly wanted, and how I showed up in dating. That experience alone was worth it. I decided to go out on a limb and try again—and the second time, I met my now husband. The process felt thoughtful, intentional, and human, not transactional. I’m living proof that sometimes the first round is about growth, and the second is about finding the right match. I can’t recommend Three Day Rule enough for anyone serious about finding a real, lasting relationship.

Really think that it was a good learning experience to try a matchmaker. Luba was such a great matchmaker who made me feel really comfortable with the process and put a lot of effort trying to find me someone.

Kristen has been one of the matchmakers I've used with Three day. She's been nothing but the best. Very professional, responsive, and honest.

I did Three Day Rule back in 2017, and it was very useful! I was in my late 30s, had gotten through a divorce a few years earlier, and I just wasn't having success on the apps. I am busy between work, friends, and activities, and I felt like I just didn't have the energy to dedicate to the apps to find quality dates.

My first match was a good guy - definitely someone I would have gone on a second date with if I met him on the apps. We had a good connection, but I still wanted to meet another match. My second match ended up being wonderful, and we've now been married for almost 6 years!

Three Day Rule truly stands apart in the matchmaking world. What made the experience special was how deeply they focused on me—my values, my personality, and my long-term relationship goals—rather than pushing a high volume of dates. They listened carefully, asked thoughtful questions, and were incredibly intentional with every match. It felt personal, human, and genuinely well considered. Thanks to their care and attention to detail, they connected me with my wife. I can honestly say their approach works because they prioritize quality, understanding, and real connection over numbers.

Three Day Rule offered a genuinely personalized dating experience. My matchmaker took time to understand my preferences, checked in regularly, and used my feedback to refine each introduction. The matches provided were really spot on and felt intentional and higher quality than what I found on dating apps.

It’s not cheap, but the thoughtful communication, curated matches, and supportive coaching made it a worthwhile investment. I’d recommend it to anyone looking for a more human and tailored approach to dating.

3 first dates which didn’t lead to anything