Sleep Consultant & Parent Adviser. Reviews 

Brenda changed our toddlers sleeping pattern in a matter of days- quite remarkable!

Our daughter had been waking 3-4 times a night before Brenda arrived and now sleeps from 7-7 every night. Brenda won't sugar coat things for you, she is very straight talking but she does produce results and our daughter does seem a lot happier on her revised routine. She is also very helpful post visit on WhatsApp, checking in each morning and offering advice and adjustments until everyone is happy.

Brenda is a miracle worker.
If you are running on empty and wondering if your child will ever sleep, just hire Brenda.

Our two-year-old daughter hadn't slept through the night more than four or five time since she was born. We were completely exhausted. Within just three days of working with Brenda, she was sleeping through the night. It feels nothing short of a miracle.

The impact on our family has been immense. My wife and I are finally getting a full night's rest, meaning we can actually show up to work fully present, focused, and attentive instead of just surviving the day. More importantly, having our energy back means we can finally enjoy quality, focused time with our eldest child, rather than always feeling stretched to the limit.
Brenda didn't just fix our daughter's sleep; she completely gave us our lives and family time back. We cannot recommend her highly ends. Five stars isn't enough!

We were recommended working with Brenda to improve our daughters sleep by several of Brenda's previous clients, and we are certainly glad we listened to them! Before Brenda, our daughter was waking multiple times at night, feeding unnecessarily and napping far longer in the day than needed at her age. Following Brenda's clear routine, guidance and knowledge we manage to drastically improve our daughters night time sleep in a matter of days. She still does not sleep 7 -7 (is an early waker often) but sleeps solidly and deeply at night and we hope by sticking to Brenda's routine the mornings will continue to improve. She is also able to put herself to sleep comfortable for both naps and bedtime which is a drastic improvement from the lengthy routine of rocking, shusshing, singing etc that we had in place previously.

We were happy that our work with Brenda carried through to our recent holiday with our daughter to France. Previously when we have taken our daughter away, she has slept terribly out of her home environment but this time arguably slept even better than she does at home! It made the holiday far more relaxing and enjoyable for all.

We have used Brenda twice and both times our children were sleep trained within 3 months. As well as this, she offers very practical and useful support for mums She really gets to know the child and she is extremely professional and experienced. Thank you Brenda!

We contacted Brenda for support with our youngest son when he was just over six months old. After nearly four months of hourly night wakings, we were exhausted, struggling to make progress on our own, and in need of guidance.

We were very grateful that Brenda came to visit us in person in Kent. She took the time to meet our whole family, including our toddler, and developed a schedule tailored to the needs of both children.

Brenda quickly identified that our youngest was not a particularly high-sleep-needs child and suggested adjustments to his daytime sleep, which proved helpful.

Nearly six weeks on from Brenda’s visit, our son’s sleep has improved dramatically, and he will often sleep for stretches of up to 10 hours. For that, we are enormously grateful, and there is no doubt that our family's situation has improved significantly.

That said, the process of getting there was not easy. Brenda’s approach relies heavily on a full-extinction "cry it out" method, which we found emotionally challenging to implement. Throughout the three-week follow-up period, Brenda was highly responsive and consistently replied to messages promptly. However, the guidance remained largely focused on maintaining the routine and allowing the process to run its course, regardless of the level of crying involved.

We also found that Brenda’s communication style may not suit every family. At times, we would have appreciated more empathy and reassurance, given how difficult the process felt for both us and our children.

While we understand that confidence and consistency are important when supporting families through sleep training, there were occasions when her manner came across as abrupt or defensive, which made some interactions feel challenging.

Ultimately, we do not regret using Brenda’s services, and we are thankful for the positive outcome we achieved. However, we would recommend that prospective clients carefully consider whether her direct, highly structured, and no-nonsense approach aligns with their parenting style and comfort level, as it may not be the right fit for every family.

We reached out to Brenda when we were completely at the end of our tether. Our son was 18 months old and had never slept through the night. We knew deep down that we had become too soft and were stuck in survival mode, giving him milk just so he would go back to sleep, lying with him for hours, and dealing with multiple wake ups every night.

Brenda was exactly what we needed. Her approach is definitely tough love, so if you are looking for someone to tell you that you are doing everything right or to sugar coat things, she may not be for you. But if you know something has to change, are willing to listen, learn, understand why your child is struggling with sleep, and stick to a clear plan, then I genuinely believe you can get amazing results with Brenda.

For us, it worked like a charm. The results came much quicker than we expected, and our son is now sleeping around 11 hours a night without needing a bottle, without us lying with him, and he is able to self-soothe during the night. We honestly cannot believe how far we have come.

We are still working on a slightly early start, and this is probably the one area where we found the process a little more challenging. Brenda felt that removing his nap was the right next step, whereas we were hesitant because even reducing his nap had made him very upset during the day, which was unusual for our normally happy little boy. Her approach is very firm, and while that was exactly what we needed overall, in this particular area we would perhaps have appreciated a little more flexibility or discussion around alternatives sooner. That said, we were only able to work with Brenda online because we live in Spain, and I do think that naturally makes it harder for any sleep trainer to fully understand a child’s behaviour and temperament compared with seeing them in person. Despite that, Brenda’s guidance was still incredibly helpful, and she did later explain that there could be other factors at play, such as sleep debt or a delayed reaction to the sleep training, giving us further options to consider.

Brenda’s knowledge, honesty, and support have made a big difference to our family. We are grateful that our son is finally getting a full night’s sleep, and we cannot thank her enough.

Thank you Brenda!
Louise, Gary & Mateo

Brenda was the perfect third party to help us through sleep training with Sasha. Her years of experience were clear from the start, and she brought so much reassurance, structure, and calm to the process. She not only guided us through Sasha’s sleep training, but also answered so many of our broader questions about developmental growth and the day-to-day stages of growing up.

We felt supported, understood, and much more confident thanks to her guidance. We’re so grateful for Brenda’s help and would highly recommend her to any parents looking for an experienced, thoughtful, and compassionate sleep consultant.

Brenda completely changed our lives, basically overnight. Our son hadn't been sleeping through the night since we returned from Australia on holiday for almost two months and we were at our wits end. Brenda arrived like supernanny and gave us a simple easy to follow routine, and within 48 hours or son was sleeping 12-hours nights and has every night since. We recommend Brenda to everyone and will enrol her services again when we have our next children.

Brenda helped us with our 4 month old to get onto a better routine. I was all over the place, feeding 3 times a night, confused about feeding and she wasn’t sleeping long stretches, I was exhausted! She helped give me confidence that she could sleep through….she now sleeps 7-7 and is a much happier baby with feeding and napping, even managing to exclusively breastfeed too. Thank you so much!

Our daughter at 20 months went from being a really good sleeper to refusing to get in her cot at night, leading to a very extended bedtime routine. She also started waking up during the night which previously she had not been doing.

With Brenda’s help we were able to get her back on track and she is now sleeping for 12 hours again. We have our evenings back which we are very grateful for!

Would definitely recommend Brenda.

Brenda gives very clear directions from the outset, shes pragmatic and offers no nonsense direction that gets results. We saw near immediate results with baby sleeping through the night and allowed mother to get some much needed sleep and restore some calm to household. The 3 weeks whattsap support was hugely valuable and absolutely needed. Wholeheartedly recommend!

Brenda transformed our daughter’s sleep with her clear guidance and expertise. We went from having a 3 month old baby who would only day sleep in the sling to a baby sleeping 7pm-7am and happy to sleep independently in the day.
I would highly recommend Brenda for anyone struggling with sleep - trust the process!

Brenda created a routine that works wonderfully for our son. In the weeks we worked with her, he got off bottle feeding at night and all together, he sleeps through the night and eats well.

Brenda night nannied for us from when our son was just two weeks old right through to 3.5 months, and by the time she left us he was sleeping consistently from 7 to 7 every night.

What made Brenda so invaluable wasn't just her presence overnight. Her wisdom throughout the whole period was something we leaned on enormously. Getting Ted into a solid daytime schedule was just as crucial as the nights, and Brenda helped us build that foundation from the very start.

She did say he was an "easy baby" but we're convinced that a huge amount of credit goes to the routine she helped us put in place early on. Good habits don't happen by accident!

No-nonsense, knowledgeable, and utterly brilliant - We absolutely love her and would recommend her in a heartbeat to any parent.

Brenda has delivered outstanding support in helping us sleep train our son. She also worked as our son’s night nanny during his first three months, caring for him a few nights each week, and we had complete confidence in her abilities. With her calm and confident approach, she provided clear, practical guidance that was both effective and reassuring. Previously a restless sleeper who frequently woke himself during naps, he is now consistently sleeping through the night for 10 hours +. Brenda’s structured routines and personalised advice have made a remarkable difference, and we have nothing but praise for her professionalism, expertise, and ongoing support. Would recommend Brenda to any parents without a second thought!

We were in a very bad place with our son’s sleep, despite him being our third and trying to implement good sleeping habits. Brenda quickly identified some issues in our routine, and following her schedule (with some flexibility to fit our child) has helped a lot. I have found the advice around weaning and breastfeeding schedule really helpful and he has taken to solids much better than our two older children. It’s definitely a more strict approach to sleep training but in this instance it was what we needed, and we wouldn’t have been able to do it without having someone as experienced as Brenda to guide us through the process.

Brenda was an absolute game changer for our family. She sleep trained our first baby and the results were incredible, we went from total exhaustion to a baby who slept brilliantly, and it made such a difference to all of us. When our next baby came along, there was no question, we went straight back to her.

She has a firm, no-nonsense approach, but that’s exactly why it works. She’s clear, consistent, and knows exactly what she’s doing, which gives you confidence to stick with the plan. It’s not always easy in the moment, but the results speak for themselves.

We’re so grateful to Brenda and wouldn’t hesitate to recommend her to anyone who is serious about getting their baby (and themselves!) sleeping properly.

We love Brenda!! Absolutely no nonsense but it worked and her daytime routine was absolutely game changer. I really feel now that level of structure in the day made our baby feel so safe - as she knew what was coming so felt secure in knowing each step through the day. I think that helped her to relax and trust - so she started easily sleeping through the night with ease almost right away. When we do our bedtime routine she gets excited as if she genuinely looks forward to it. We were recommended Brenda through a friend and thank god because before we were freestyling it and making it up as we were going along - and it was so exhausting. Brenda has been our North Star and guided us to better sleep and a happier family. Thank you Brenda!!

I learnt so much about being a parent and my own ability through the process of working with Brenda! My baby is now 3.5 months and sleeping 12 hrs a night 🤯

For me, this tooling choice was 100% worth it and I’ll do it again. It also made me understand my baby a lot more (& become closer to him)

Thank you Brenda, you are an absolute legend!