Marriedbutlooking Reviews 

Someone mentioned the automated timing of getting likes - I fully agree, this is the first red flag. There is a whole bunch of red flags especially compared to J1Live.com
and other more or less legitimate platforms. For example, the rate of likes and automatic first messages is high, but the reply rate is very low. When you reach out to the alleged women, nothing happens. Complete silence. The only thing they care about is to entice you into repetitive automatic pay. If you want to cancel it you will have to contact your bank.

Review: Married but Looking

This site belongs on the growing list of dating platforms built around fake profiles, AI-generated interactions, and manipulative engagement tactics.

Over the course of my time on the site, I sent 140 messages. I did not receive a single genuine reply. At the same time, I received 86 “likes” on my profile — yet none of those users responded when I reached out. That alone raises serious questions about authenticity.

What’s even more telling is the timing:
All likes occurred during narrow, repetitive time windows — primarily between 1–5 a.m., and often clustered during standard office hours. That pattern strongly suggests automation rather than real human activity.

From a customer perspective, this platform feels designed not to foster real connections, but to encourage continued spending through artificial engagement. The psychology is familiar: inflate interest, create hope, then maintain silence.

In my experience, this is not a dating service — it’s a monetization system built on illusion. I would strongly caution anyone considering signing up.

This is nothing but a scam site. Do not touch it with a bulge pole. Once they have your car details they try and extort money from you. This site should be banned. All the women on here are purely fictional. It is my opinion that the side is computer generated and has absolutely no connection with a real world at all.

None of pictures were stable - looked very unprofessional - pushed me to a 3 month subscription - made it difficult to cancel subscription

I signed up for one month and now they are demanding £179 to cancel my subscription or they will take legal action. Can any one offer any advice what will happen if I don't pay.

I only gave 1 star because 0 is not an option.
Somewhere in the fine print, you will be automatically charged for renewal. There is no option in my profile itself to cancel or turn off auto renewal.
Despite 8 emails I still don't know when I am paid until.
I have to fill out a form to cancel, which I am about to do.
6 people have contacted me and every one of them is a scammer, There is no evidence to suggest any of the profiles are real.
I have messaged profiles that are far less than attractive, and not a peep in response.
Keep away, put your hard earned cash into something that would even attempt to offer the service that is claims.

SCAM

Qualidates AG is the parent company. They operate many dating sites. I put my mother on one to find a serious partner, and canceled my subscription after a few months.
They have been harassing me and trying to charge me despite the cancelation. I had to cancel my credit card and a new one issued because of this. Bunch of crooks.

Absolutely a con..They keep sending letters to my address and my partner has found out..you won't get another penny from me

Take note. As many of these sites, they essentially amount to scans. Perhaps it serves us right, that’s a conversation for another time. First don’t make your user name the same as the first part of the email address you are used. Scammers have figured this out. You’ll get loads of those ridiculous emails about how much you’ve wanted. Second, they send you these auto generated messages so you think you have messages and get tricked into signing up. Stay well away.

DON'T TOUCH THEM WITH A BARGEPOLE

Further to my earlier review of this online dating service:

Two weeks into my one-month only subscription I realised they are a dodgy outfit so I emailed them to ensure cancellation of my subscription and received just a confirmation of receipt of my email - never heard anything further.

One month later the scammer had taken a further one month subscription from my credit card. I emailed them demanding immediate refund of the unauthorised payment, and again just an automated acknowledgement of receipt of my email. So I contacted Visa and they refunded me the amount and instructed me to cancel my credit card, to stop any more unauthorised payments being made to this scammer.

A month later I received an email from Auer Witte Thiel, a supposed solicitor, threatening court action if I failed to pay the scammer the subscription amount. How you can deal with this misrepresented service is described by an experienced UK solicitor in the conversation relating to auer-witte-thiel and a simple online search will put your mind at rest!

So my advice remains AVOID this scammer AT ALL COST and you'll save yourself much anxiety and your precious time.

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I am not paying £100 to be able to send message and then have to pay another £100 to read the replies.

The only replies I have had have been from 2 women. Both wanted to go off site immediately. The profile of the first claimed she was a woman in her 70's living in Manchester. Off line she claimed to be in her 30's and a student living in Birmingham. Her messages were sent before 6am (clearly in a different time zone) and she wanted "500£" to meet with the money sent via World Remit.

The site is from Qualidates AG, Turmstrasse 18, 6312 Steinhausen, Switzerland.

This site is terrible they just want your money don’t join save your money you can find better else wher 😡😡😡

I joined this for 1 month and at a first glance it seemed okay. But any number of ladies respond and offer dates, but all insist on you obtaining a worthless certificate for safe dating. You have to enter your credit card details and pay an undisclosed fee to get this approval. I emailed the site asking what their fees were - no reply. All of the many ladies on the site who contacted me insisted on the same.
This site is linked to other sites which are interlinked such as Matures.dating and UK-Mums.com All run on the same software from Swiss Company Qualidates AG